By Every adult porn has its desires, preferences, expectations, and approach. You can’t assume they’re all the same or want the same thing.
Don’t lump everyone together.
Selling includes wasting your time and dealing with rude people. That’s not nice, but you can’t assume the next adult porn you touch is the same or use expressions like all adult porn.
The “all sellers” attitude seems a bit wild, but that’s because it’s not true.
You can’t lump everyone together based on the actions of one person.
Enjoying kink is different.
Different porn actors enjoy kinky in various ways. Never assume that everyone wants the same thing or to do it the same way.
Not all subs want to be called losers or humiliated.
Only some people interested in Findom want to pay cash just because they ask or want to be humiliated.
Not all porn actors want to be called pigs or perverts.
Not all porn actors/subs are interested in Findom. The legend is to treat them as people. Blanket statements are not what porn stars want. Please get to know them or discover what they want to be called.
Not a guarantee
Not every porn star who approaches you or interacts with you will want to buy from you, so be realistic with your expectations.
You should feel comfortable enough to approach them and ask questions if they don’t want to proceed or have made you uncomfortable.
It would help if you also respected being told no. They are under no obligation to explain this to you. This is a two-way street. I wouldn’t say I like it, so I never do it.
Recognize the good
It is essential to recognize and acknowledge good quality adult porn.
As a salesperson, I know all too well that in real time I can be disheartened by time-wasters and rude people, but I have learned that there is a lot of excellent adult porn out there for everyone.
There are adult porn that have been and continue to be incredibly supportive to me. It wasn’t just about selling; they listened to me, gave me some advice, and were supportive overall.
Seeing and acknowledging the good makes you a better seller and opens the door to a better experience. As mentioned above, don’t lump everyone together. If you do, not only will you miss out on a great experience, but you might also miss out on sales. Not all adult porn is the same. If you’ve just had a bad experience with porn, it’s understandable that you’ll have a bad taste in your mouth, but you’ll carry that attitude and assumption that they’re the same into the next one. The next one won’t be good for you and won’t be fair to this one either.
Be Honest
If you think you can’t do something or can’t do it well, say so.
Adult porn knows if you’re not interested in something or it wasn’t given to you, that’s all. That’s why it’s essential to be honest with yourself and the other person and ask yourself if you can do it within the given time frame. Will I be able to give it my all? Will I enjoy it?
Hard Sales Pitch
With adult porn performers, you don’t need to be pushy or salesy in your first message.
If they’re posting and looking for something, you can help, comment, or contact them (if that’s what they want), but don’t assume they’ll say yes or show up without saying hello to someone.
Plus, copy-and-paste messages are off-putting to many adult porn performers, and performers are individuals who know what they want.
Research
Read the bio (I know not everyone does, and it’s a bit disappointing because it helps and saves time), but reading it can be an excellent icebreaker for those who do.
Ask questions and find out the person’s boundaries, including their name. Take the time to ask questions that seem relevant and get them to ask you what you need and want in adult porn.
Have you made sure your payment method matches? Include adult porn in your bio. It’s beneficial for us and you.
